What is love? Watts life. in the west of "love wrote," love is a as invisible as strong arc between men and women have the spirit and the flesh. "the feeling of strong admire His explanation is brilliantly, because he is not flaunt the noble spirit, also not disgraced sensual, but will spirit and vulgar sensual equal in love at both ends of the scale. This wise and not extreme views a praise.
We all know that Plato is respected spiritual love, he despised sensual, think sex defiled love to really to pure, however, no sexual love, also can call it love? Little children are not know love, and the eunuch (asexual) is there may not be love. Only when the nakedness of your sensitive because the stimulus of the hormones, love is not move when elusive. No sexual love is equivalent to the castles in the air, non-existent, even the law also won't admit it. Instead, excessive pursuit of sensual and ignore spirit is wrong, even rude and don't understand amorous feelings! People are different from animals, because the human with excellent wisdom and rich spirit world, if only to take the sensual and ignore the spirit, so people will be a wild beast. For love, I can play a parable: a translucent underwear can let a female more enchanting, and will hold all clothes off instead of light have become aesthetic feeling at all. Love is equivalent to the translucent underwear, frankly speaking, she is the art of civilized man, rather than the barbarian game.
The director of the movie "love GuChangWei" let us in appalling at the same time, appreciate the meaning of love!!!!! The story in a very simple and clean in the background of a person in the village because selling blood on: and have had the fever (AIDS), so proud, jean jean, the AIDS was moved to the village school due to illness, live within the sake, proud and his wife separated, jean jean's husband is afraid to touch a harp, so two harp of discontent and young people who like ganci agni as staged a paradoxical Aaron more than, courtesy, exceedingly sentimental love story!!!!!
Wonderful things happen, when we see two people XiaHuo dark, furtive, incredibly to their affair didn't despise and abandon, but play for two people really glad. When we see proud and jean jean valentine, and hold a marriage certificate happily joyful candy and even eat hair around in your face, in addition, will only hurt the heartfelt blessing! This is a secret liaison man contempt things, but why become so perfectly justified? !!!!! --because the human nature! Because we are the people and not god, is the man who is--the desire or simple or complex or pure, or degrading desire are more like a man!
Recently, the Qingdao for the single lawyer a not complex divorce cases. Ms wong discovered her husband Mr. Zhang behavior abnormalities, sent private detective secretly tracking, found out her husband a small three, also had a baby.
His wife can't help gas on the heart, while her husband and a secret rendezvous to ask the police station to report her husband and three small, sex in bed. Originally also hesitate whether or not the divorce of his wife, when that lie in the husband side, unexpectedly is a than their old fourteen years old when the reemployment of laid-off women workers, and the next day and came to entrust divorce case law firm. In fact, she really ignored an important question, why the husband will abandon a sunny campus queen of wife and looking for a wife than big 14-year-old laid-off women do small three?
Actually, love beautiful heart the person all has, as a normal thinking people, who all know in choose a wife, Venus and the laid-off women no comparable between, not only is the age difference, and it looks speaking, is a beauty queen, a middle-aged woman is bloated. So, what is a school choice to laid-off women husband instead Venus? Among them, there may be many reasons, but, in court, a lawyer in mediation, the truth is beauty queen husband say: "you will only arrogant to blame me, and she understood me, than you like women. In my the lowest point is she comforted me to help me, but not you!" Ms wong couldn't help in court began to cry. Later the program is not very complicated. Mr. Zhang has offered no excessive requirements, in the division of property on what didn't dispute.
Really, this simply couldn't be simple case, but simple to reflect the simple, but in a philosophy of the eternal, that is, people are feeling, not the money the slavery of animals, not looks and power of the product, don't think his subservient to how good and decorous, actually, excellent and elegant only the individual in a particular phase of the self, you know the place to the higher position, in fact the reflects on you thought low and vulgar, Mr. Zhang laid-off women choose chosen beauty queen, is a human nature's return, a rational choice.
The biggest difference is that people and animals are thinking sensible, just think, if less than than having situation, our school campus queen husband to choose looks poor laid-off women age? Who know the difference between them, who all know Venus and reemployment of laid-off women workers, but the value of, long time in a depressed state, the total in high horse and all kinds of blame wife survival, Mr. Zhang is really worth more dead than alive. So, he'd abandoned school choice and reemployment of laid-off women workers, nature has his truth and dumb difficulties.
"Amid the sharp plural remedy, HeGuangTongChen" is a kind of can forgive all great greatness, Lao tze in the tao-te chapter 4 of chapter two times and 56 put forward the enlightenment of this great mind. In his chapter 56 it like this:
"Don't say, don't know if the knower. Plug the closed its doors, confirmed, the sharp, amid the solution; and the split the light, with its dust," with. So is the unavailable and pro, do not have to and succoth; do not have, do not have to and the levites and the harm; do not have to and expensive, do not have to and base; so is world expensive."
This passage is this: the meaning of the wise man wise didn't say much, and ShuiChangLunDuan everywhere man is the wise of the wise. Plug the hole again, a passionate man blocked off the way a passionate man lived. Don't uncover abilities, digestion, and strife, and divisions, to abilities, amid the liberation, and strife, and divisions, convergence, confusion, the appearance of earth is esoteric xuan with. And to achieve "with" state of the person, property can be detached, the interested in, the secular range, which have respect for everybody.
Here the "with" also means the enter the path after all, will have the great mind bears all things, optimistic to accept a given all the way. Have the heart, also can achieve "doing nothing and doing nothing" success realm. Here is a wise man 3 laotse training method and its effect. Lao tze thought, and wise men should not be a preacher, but should through the self-discipline, and consistent, open-minded magnanimous, in order to obtain the history of people. Because "tao", said on the "tao", are not any text, language can express clear. Text, language is "to have" the level of the product, service at "have" this level, can't be detached from "to have" the level. Text, language for the role of the Abbey, is only a guide only, the early real "way" only depend on oneself to to empirical, in practice can understand. Lao tze said the "silent, don't know if the knower", is refers to the people feel your bank not expensive said. Avenue cat can only god, will, not words.
Any kind of "character" is a kind of indirect experience. "The more the way" to the high level, the more close to the real basic universe like, the power of the language they looked pale. Why? Because the language of mass, is service is the popularity of the universal consciousness, and is the social focus reflection, so the language is "only", but not from the XiaLi may be "high mountain running water". From "way" understanding, experience, and thought if must put it into words form of the language, so have been playing a discount is the thing; the deformation Plus the audience with their qualifications and the background, etc, and the different language of produce more migration. So "way" is not the speech. Can the speech is low levels of things, from the "way" is far away and is more close to the "have" world of things. The closer "have" the level, the easier it is to say, is as easy to express, and easy to be understood, but that's not really the "tao", or, at best, only some convenient technique, so if the "just do not know"; The closer the "no" the level, the less he easy to say, is not easy to expressing, and easy to be generally understood, but that just close to the "tao". "Sugar apple flowers, and the leaf came smile"-which is "silent" state, is the border of the heart-to-heart communication, only the expression of the state near, is not be distorted. So, "said nothing." the knowers